I always feel really bad when fat people feel bad for being fat. Especially when they’re people I think are pretty and they’re feeling bad about their weight and I just want to go “alkweuhtglaurfd no don’t you’re really pretty and also a pretty cool person and you shouldn’t feel bad about being fat because it’s part of what makes you attractive,” but then I don’t because that sounds weird and objectifying.
It’s also a little strange because I’m attracted to most body types (the only thing I’m not really attracted to are huge muscles) so it might seem like I’m not being genuine when I say I’m attracted to fat people but that’s not true it’s totally a real, genuine thing.
I’m also not sure how to address the effects of society telling fat people that they’re worthless because it’s something I’ve never had to deal with myself and I realize that my ability to be attracted to fat people isn’t going to magically undo that horrid social conditioning.
I think I’m just going to stop typing now because this post is entirely run-on sentences but thank you for reading it anyway, tumblr.